H did come by and pick up D16 today. Weather wasn't good for a boat ride so they went to a movie instead. I had planned to be gone when he got here, but he came 1 1/2 hours early. I made sure I wasn't home when he dropped her off, though.
I've been listening to the DivorceCare cds. So far they make me feel normal (feeling angry, lonely, etc, etc). He doesn't appear to miss me yet. I figure he'll be happy on the boat until winter rolls around. I am not ready to push in any direction, but I would like things settled before school starts next fall.