CL, spent some time at the library today. I've got a couple books on hold that you suggested. I didn't want to come home empty handed so I checked out another one of Susan Jeffer's books, Embracing Uncertainty. Have you seen it? I also found a book called The Art of Forgiveness, Lovingkindness, and Peace by Jack Kornfield. (I had forgotten to write down the author of Lovingkindness. Will try that next trip). Thanks for the suggestions.

Matilda