Thanks everyone for your thoughts on this... my husband said to toss it in the trash. I liked that idea because I can honestly tell my friend, that it must have gotten tossed in the trash with my junk mail.

I'll also tell her if she needs to send something to someone else it's better she send it to them directly and PLEASE don't put my address on it!!! She can just use her parents or get a PO box...

There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.