Your telling me. A good friend said to me recently "when in the world did you ask God for patience? because you are being tested big time." Let's see since he left. One of my dogs had to have surgery for a cancerous tumor, to the tune of $5400.00 and it was my H's decision to do the surgery. He came to the doggie hospital that day. With a 5% chance of her ever recovering and with the situation I just don't know that I would have made the same decision but nonetheless she is alive and well and laying at my feet. Then let's see...there was the dead baby rabbit it my pool on Easter morning. Yep, the easter bunny didn't make it to my house on Easter<G>. Then, both A/C's went out - at my business and my home on the same day. There went another $2400 and last but not least my father' accident at work that caused him to have to have his finger amputated. I know this is nothing compared to other situations but what the heck, you guys wanted me to open up. So, that's some of what I have faced in the 3 months he has been gone.
Now the positives...
He did show up at the hospital for the dog. He did show up to look at the A/C unit. He did fix the headlight on my van. He is texting me regularly and flirting.
Hang on rollercoaster, I need to tighten my restraint : )