Husband, I'm impressed with your courage in having a difficult R talk with your W. She gave you further insight into where she's currently at. She was honest with you and sounds like she wants to maintain a connection with you.
It also sounds like you're willing to respect her space, which will serve both of you well.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."