Karen, very sage advice...I, too, am Catholic and consider myself to be M still...even if I got D'd.
Stay on the straight and narrow. I do not date and do not encourage that type of attention.
DSH, if you want to stand, you won't date either. Karen is right though, check with an attorney---doesn't mean you have to HIRE one. Just get advice. Believe it or not, there are some very good family law attorneys...go with whomever YOU feel comfortable with.
Valentine
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
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