I don't know what state you live in, but if you can file for legal separation, that may your only recourse...otherwise, like many here, you will be financially decimated b/c of HIS spending. Do you live in a community property state?
you say he still pays the bills...does he keep everything current? Are the dogs with you?
I know you are private but as RCR says, give us more information and we can give you more guidance.
Hugs, Valentine
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
