there are not any support groups in my town but i am starting IC this month. i have tried to get my h to go to MC with me but he wouldn't and now that he is gone i know that is surely not going to happen so i am doing this for me and my kids. my h started texting and calling me about midnight last night and i am putting a stop to that today. if he wants to talk he has several hours during the day. but one of his texts did say that it was wierd not hearing my voice for two days. i do not call or text him unless i have to, other than that i let him initiate the contact. i would love anyones suggestions on this. and to the person husband that is going through this i feel for u to. let me know what does and does not work for u.


me-30
h-38
m-11 yrs
s-6
s-7
ss-13
h left-april 21,2007
found out of ea april 1, 2007