Matilda,
By sending the articles you are appearing not to be dropping the rope(chasing that is), it is a good thing you did not.

You are right as you said on my thread we need to get a LIFE. You have to make him do the chaseing let him seee what he is missing.

I do go out and do things without H and i do have a good time and he does wonder what i am up to also .(i think it does him some good to wonder).We live together and have not separated so it is hard to detach to much, but i do try and it does help when i can.(even if i just make sure im'e not in the same room all of the time).
You are very right it is so hard and the emotions go from one end to the other but we have to keep on doing the best job we can for us and in the end i know i (and we) will be better people for the pain they have put us through.
jak

Last edited by jak58; 05/06/07 11:47 AM.
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