have been too overwhelmed to post on my own thread/make a new one. Kind of easier to discuss other's situations than deal with my own, kwim? I WILL post, with God as my witness. But an old dear friend (with a bratty/nutty 9 y/o son, "playing" with my d9) is visiting this weekend so my time is limited. Your talk with your h sounds like a possible pivotal step. Maybe small, but in a new direction. Good for you. I will post probably tomorrow night and somewhere else I got instructions, since I'm computer illiterate, I'll continue to be like Blanche Dubois, and "rely on the kindness of strangers."
Like you, I am SO grateful for this bb. My dear friend can barely contain her disbelief that I am not divorced, and I appreciate her restraint. I'd tell ME to get divorced if I were in her shoes, so, oh wellll. I know you get it.
talk to you soon, j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
