Husband, You can try having a R talk with your W and see how it goes. My guess is that you're going to be disappointed. It sounds like there is great distance in the M. I don't think she's thinking too much about the R, or you at this time.
I think most of us begin to DB, when we realize that the WAS is not coming back any time soon. We have no choice but to accept the reality of the situation.
Go ahead and try whatever you think might make a difference. I don't think you'll make things any worse.
It is true. You will need to communicate better with your W. That will come later. The test you need to pass now, is to respect that she wants space from you.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
