LMBF, Have some faith in yourself. You can handle this. You can handle whatever happens.
Accept the crisis. Don't fight it. Don't run away from your pain. Don't try to escape the emotions. You won't break. You'll begin to realize how strong you are, and that nothing can break you--including your H.
Are there support groups for separated persons nearby? It would help to not go thru this alone. Increase your connections. Build a support network. You want the positives in your life to be larger than the problems.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
