Yes it's been quiet here...SR continued

[ImprovedRomeo]

So I'm starting a new thread, last thread here

To summarize, wife moved out then acted as-if even friendly and then 6 months or so later told me via email that she filed for the divorce. I've been going as slow as possible with the divorce process. Apr 23rd I sent the 'response' to her lawyer. She has otherwise not said nor discussed anything in regard to the divorce, the relationship, the marriage. However she tries to offer me suggestions, ask me for help with the car and computers stuff, tells me things about her work etc. I've on the other hand gone as dark as I possibly can given that I still have to see her once or twice a week due to our 2yo.

Yesterday she emailed me asking if I could watch D on Sat since she had a waxing appointment. I reponded with my usual 2 word reply "Sure np". This morning she called me at 11am asking if I wanted to have lunch with her and D since they're in the area. I told her 'umm ok...sure' she then said 'you don't have to if you don't want to'. I said 'give me some time as I'm just getting back from the store, I can meet you guys in a bit'. Anyway, that was that, we met, had lunch, then I put D down for a nap and STBXW left.

She text'd me about an hour later "when can I pick D up, I'm driving home now". I text'd back "she's still asleep, you can pick her up whenver you want, I can let you know when she's up". 10 mins later she's at the door. We watched TV and talked about a few random things like the current news events etc. Finally D woke up, I made her a quick snack. I thought STBXW would just pick D up and leave but she said to me "let's take D out or are we going to spend all day in here?". I was surprised, quite surprised because we don't typically do this anymore. Of course, I caved in and said "what do you have in mind?". So we spent a couple of hours at the nearby mall. Then she said "Do you want to get some food, it's already dinner time"...so then we had dinner together and she just dropped me off.

I'm not going to let this bring my hopes up too much, in fact I should be worried if anything because she's done this before and typically bad news has followed such behavior. Like her moving out while the night before she baked a pie and we slept together. Also when she became overly friendly and then a couple of days later told me via email that she'd filed for the divorce.