he has also accused me of being a lesbian!! he hates all my female friends, he has never acknowledge that my job is demanding or valued, he expects me to be interested in his friends and football yet he always puts my work relationships down, he can never listen but has to always tell me how i should have done it better. Because he is so rude to people my son is finding it hard to get work in the same field becuase his attitude has so pissed of people. Having said this he is very good if not exceptional at his job but being foriegn has created predjudice and he has not been accepted. He really is very good at his job and this i can openly praise him for, but i have also come on a long journey yet he just ignores my efforts and blames. it is the silence that i am living with that is killing me.