See...this is what I mean with Missy...I saw what he did even before reading that far..Missy said, "that's REALLY not the kind of thing you want out on MySpace. I really hadn't thought much of it, but, it bothered you and she said that, so I took it down." ...can you see objectively how he would feel???...You were defending the picture before if I recall correctly...then when your best friend tells you it isn't a good idea you agree...even if you considered Joey's feelings it was after your b/f saw it...it makes him feel "less important"...you probably know this already...but if you really wanted to show Joey a wife who respects her H's feelings you would have removed it when he expressed his feelings on it...that is a public board that other people can access...I can clearly understand his feelings...the more YOU respect HIS feelings the more YOU can EXPECT HIM to respect YOURS...someone has to step up to the plate and go first...
It was a big step that he gave you the password...but like I said it really makes no difference...if someone wants to hide something and keep it secret all they need is another email address....my H had so many he forgot his own passwords...he was always paranoid I would find out the password somehow (this happened in the past, I don't even recall how I did it)that he used different ones for different accounts...lol, so he couldn't even keep up with himself after a while...you don't want to drive Joey to this point...I think I would just tell him to make his password whatever he wants...that you feel you have to trust him...and that you don't want to know...let it be on him...let him be a "big boy"...a MAN
