I am sorry, but zuzu, you do owe Joey an appology (if he knows) for giving her his passwords (even if he had changed them)...had she been able to access that and read anything that was private/personal...whether it was right or wrong would have been really bad...this is my opinion of course but when it comes to matters of intimacy and privacy between a H and W...you don't invite friends into that...even if you can trust them...
I understand you need someone to confide in...but can't you see how you both are putting Missy in the middle...really how can she be impartial...you are her best friend from 4th grade...she loves Joey like a brother???...someone will turn against someone if this continues...it one thing to discuss this with a dear friend that is your own...I know you need to talk to someone...but I still stand by what I am saying with regard to Missy...she needs to be kept totally out of this...and you need to respect that passwords...even if Joey gives them to you...are not to be shared...for any reason...really, who cares if she emailed him???...SHE is not your problem...do you understand what I am trying to point out here???
