workaholics wife I was thinking about having a short talk with My W tonight. I was going to tell her I kind of know what is getting out of talking to him because I found someone to talk to also. Someone that knows what I am going through and is very much in the same situation as she is. I’m going to tell her what you said “Sometimes I just wish he could say, "I'm sorry you’re hurting, if there is something I can do to help let me know". That she need to fix it herself and needs to figure it out on her own. It is true that it helps talking to someone. What my wife and I need to do is to learn to be able to communicate with each other as easily as she communicates with him and I to you. I’m not going to say anything about DB. Just that we met and started talking to each other about our problems. Is this OK with you? Do you think this is a bad Idea?
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know