My H has ED...he has had physicals and they find nothing out of the ordinary...he has suffered with depression post-MLC...this coupled with guilt is part of it...he has diabetes but not bad and keeps it well controlled...he finally got a Viagra type drug...doctor said to start with a 1/2 dose...well he did and nothing...then a full dose and nothing...he even double dosed (after checking on the internet to see if it would be save to try) and nothing....he doesn't get spontanious morning erections either...he has NO desire for sex at all...
I am patient...he does "tend" to my needs but it isn't the same and I feel that "missing" part...that part of HIM that I would like (not the physical part but the emotional)...he is the one that always says he is "broken" "it doesn't work"...now sometimes it does...and we have a good time (or at least he says he did)...I feel badly for him...I feel bad for me...we had such a wonderful sex life before MLC...and now this...
I do love HIM...and am willing to work with whatever he has...but what I miss most is his emotional desire for me...he says it isn't there...
Any ideas?...maybe this can help 12-51....I didn't mean to highjack but think maybe in everyone sharing someone might have some answers...
