i have read divorce remedy and it is how i found this website. actually i have read it twice. i have not read the book divorce busting but i am going to get it maybe it will have a few more ideas or suggestions. i will also look for the other book "Feel the fear and do it anyways" and i do agree what you said about my h needing to change to. i am hoping that things will end with the ow and he will realize that with me and the kids is where he wants to be and will realize that he has some changing to do to. i just wish i could fast forward a year or two and all of this will be over with. i just dont understand what a 19 yr old sees in a 38 yr old man with kids. he says for a man of his age to have a girl her age is like a trophy. i am so confused. my says he wants a D but he doesnt want lawyers and judges deciding everything for us. he wants us to do that they can just do the paperwork needed. i hate this.


me-30
h-38
m-11 yrs
s-6
s-7
ss-13
h left-april 21,2007
found out of ea april 1, 2007