husband, Im'e sure you do know the answer YES it is a bad idea. This is so hard but we have to detach give them space even tough our hearts are breaking. But i can tell you it does get easier. it took me about 5 months to even start to feel somewhat sane and able to handle everyday without constantly having this mess on my mind.(and it's still there alot but i am able to handle things better). Just keep reading DR and refer to it as much as you need. It has been my bible. kudos to you! You forgot to call(thats detaching). Glad you had a great time with D. JAK
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You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
