Not a single affair but multiple NSA. is it over?

[lostmybfriend]

i just wanted to let u know that i feel for u. my h just left me and kids for ow and we have been married for 11years. the same feelings and thoughts that u have are the same ones that i ahve had. i have always told my h that if i ever found out that he had an EA that it would be an automatic D and now i want my h back to. i know that this is not the man i married and that he can be the man i married again(just get rid of the ow). and dont 4get the counceling. also my sister had given me the book divorce remedy and it is how i found this website and i loved the book so it is worth the time to read. i never read the book divorcebusting but i am going to go get it when i have a chance i feel like i could get some more ideas that maybe wasnt in divorce remedy.i hope that things get better but i am right there with u. i have my hard days(like yesterday and today) but i know i would not be doing as well as i am if it wasnt for my family and this website.