Yes, developing the trust thing is a must, even though it feels impossible. I guess I told myself I was not going to live my life like that, so I do my best to avoid mis-trusting every action. Especially in a sitch where things seem to be moving forward and S is starting to make improvements in their life, you've got to keep a good atmoshpere in the R. But as all of us know here, this is a work in progress.
