LMBF, Wow, things are moving fast for those two. It won't last. The honeymoon period will end. You don't have to compete with her. As you say, everything is new, with no problems. It's a matter of time before it starts to develop some.
You have to be patient. Use this time to think about what you can do to become a happier and more loving person. This is the work that needs to be done if there is going to be reconciliation, and eventually healing in the M.
There's always something to work on. Do you need to make more friends? Do you need to take better care of yourself? Do you need more recreation in your life? Do you need to go to church or religious group and work on becoming a better person?
I hope he doesn't neglect his children during this time, while you two are going thru your marital problems.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
