Good luck on your trip. I think the trip will do you lots of good. Personally I find that when I spend time away it tends to clear up my priorities a little. After a trip I am more committed to what I feel is right. There does seem to be more positive forces out there for me these last few weeks. I will try to send some your way.
Hopefully this time out will have a positive affect on your H. Good luck with the D with IBF. Some days you wish you can show them previews like at the movies. However, I don't even know then if they would believe you. Personally, I like driving trips, it gives me a sense of freedom. Have a good time.