Whore/Madonna

[Heywyre]

Well this woman "in control" kicked butt again tonight.

We were on our way back from the C - it was a pretty good session, nothing too heavy but we got into some issues about the dynamics of our relationship and how it affects each other.

We were talking about a few things on the way home and then he said something that was perfect timing for me to jump in about him making sure the cell company was notified about him needing a detailed printout.

I asked if he had arranged for it - he said no, and didn't know what the "big hurry" was all about and that he "would get to it"

I said "isn't it amazing how you can spend 1½ hours on the phone this morning trying to locate the right kind of axles for your Jeep but when it comes to my needs, and our R, you don't have 5 minutes to call the cell company." - he didn't like that at all and repeated "what's the big hurry about it, I'll get to it".

My response was, "what's the big hurry? The big hurry is there is a cut off date and I am concerned that if it is not taken care of ASAP it will be too late to deal with for this month and then, conveniently the date that I am the most concerned about will be inaccessible. I would just appreciate if you would think about my feelings and how this affects me."

He didn't have much to say after that - so, like it or not, I will remind him again tomorrow but I am sure the excuse will be "well, its Saturday and the office isn't opened until Monday". Well, I will just keep bugging him until he tells me he's done it. I DON'T want to get caught missing that cut off date (13th) and if he does - purposely - I will tell him in no uncertain terms that he is to give me access to it online (like it or not) because I can go back 1 additional month to the current month on there.