Are you sure you are not my wife? Reading your words I can hear her voice. It sounds like we were married to the wrong people. I always like to try new things however. I try to get my wife to also but she always has an excuse. Unfortunately after 18 years of marriage, I have adjusted and have given up on a lot of things Until Now. While giving my W her space I have started doing things for myself again. I am going 4 wheeling in my jeep on the sand dunes in eureka next month with my son who is 10. We are staying for a week. Fishing, wheeling, museums and what ever else come up. I almost cancelled because I did not want to leave my W at home thinking she might try to meet him. (He is out of state but there is an airport near by.) But then I thought I can’t let my son down and I have no control over her anyway. I plan to take lots of pictures so she can see what she missed. And May be missing in the future.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know