I'm happy to help in any way I can. You are very welcome and it makes me feel good to know it helps you. I have learned from you as well. I will check the PM thing. I'm not sure how it works but I will figure it out. The OM may very well be a distraction for your wife. Has she told you what it is that she sees in him? You know, you are very much like my husband in so many ways. I know he means well and honestly just wants to help but everytime I have a problem he wants to "fix" me or it. I tell him all the time that I am not one of his employee's. He can't fix every thing for me. It's not that simple. Sometimes I just wish he could say, "I'm sorry your hurting, if there is something I can do to help let me know". I need to fix myself and I need to figure it out on my own. Do you know what I mean?