Interesting. So the other guy was more like your surrogate than your competition or your leader. Kind of like hiring a guy to mow the lawn and just doing the edging yourself if your wife was really into lawn care -lol . I remember one LDH who showed up on the BB said that he thought his basic problem was just laziness. Or maybe it's more of a case of needing a sort of reminder about how it's done. Kind of like how you might watch another guy do a skateboard trick and then be able to remember how to do it yourself.
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