I wouldn't be surprised if it had something to do with low self-esteem (it seems sometimes that there's only a handful of people that don't have low self-esteem, and they're too busy running the world or inventing the future to even think about self-esteem). But, in my case at least, it has nothing to do with impressing or pleasing other guys. I don't really give a crap about the guy. For me the turn-on comes more from the thought of her getting so turned on she couldn't stop herself from crossing the line, and then getting pleasured so much she could barely stand it. Not so much "Dude, I'm going to share my wife with you", but "Dude, help me give her the most intense sexual experience she's ever had" or "Dude, give her the best sex of her life and leave her barely able to walk". And I'd watch or hear her descriptions, and take notes, and have my way with her myself, and she'd get to have her cake and eat it too and be happier than a pig in slop from all the sex and attention she was getting.

Yeah, not very Alpha either. And not a very smart thing to encourage in real life for various reasons.

Last edited by Crazy Eddie; 05/04/07 08:38 PM.
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