I wish, j/k. I think he meant, or at least this is how I took it, that he had told her that it was "over" whatever was going on.

Oh, I'm not calling him a Loser by any means!!

I'm not thinking at all about dumping him. I guess I just needed the pat on the back that I'm not getting from elsewhere that I'm doing the right thing. Those of us here "think" a bit differently than some. Most people I know told me ages ago to get rid of him.

I guess I just needed the encouragement that I'm doing what I need to do and it's the right thing.

Also, this is somewhere I can vent a bit too -- being the upbeat, happy, happy, joy, joy person is tiring sometimes \:\)


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10