Honestly sometimes due to those issues (the medical ones) being HD can be something unattainable...but it's NOT HER FAULT! You keep making it sound as if this is something she's doing intentionally TO YOU.
There ARE points during a woman's life (like menopause) where our libido naturally takes a nose-dive, it's supposed to. This doesn't usually happen with men. Men are ALWAYS able to procreate, it's part of who you are....women aren't that way, that's why there's menopause. With menopause comes the body's way of saying "no need to make more babies", hence the nose dive in the libido. Hormone replacement therapy sometimes helps this, but it doesn't always. It hasn't helped my mother for example and she's tried many things.
The simple answer to your question of "how do they overcome these issues and be HD at the same time?" is....very often, they don't. You are focusing toooooo much on her being HD CeMar, honestly...I would go so far as to say you are obsessed with trying to make her HD, when I don't think she ever was to begin with. She may have had a higher drive at one time when you were younger and dating, but that's part of the infatuation phase of a relationship...I honestly don't think she's ever been HD, so you can't turn her into it.
