Issues 5 and 6 were obviously long before I met here. From what I understand about abuse, it may not efect a marraige until well into the marriage. It can cause the who wants to want problem.
Items 2,3, & 7 she is bascially being treated for. She gets thyroid medication and they are watching the others. She is likely in acceptabel ranges.
My wife esentially raised all her siblings from the age 9 on. Father was gone because of divorce, and the mother was a drunk, with many boyfriends, and was gone often. At 9 my wife was running the house while MOM was gone for several days.
RElationship issues, as far as I know have never involved another person.
Her sex drive did NOT drop off 3-4 years ago, it dropped of 3-4 years into our relationship. We are now in year 23. Essentially the newness factor wore off on her.
