1st 8 years were for the most part good (as far as I know). We did have 1 rough spot where I found out she was close to having an affair, but I think I found out before it actually happened (I think).
We went to mc for a year and came out stronger than ever. This was around the 3 year mark.
Since I have found out what has happened over the last 2 years, it has made me question how long she was doing this. Who knows...
There was always a different reason with her. 1st time it was we were just growing apart. Next time it was I was traveling too much. Now it is she has been too caught up in work (oh, and btw, she is an aerobics intructor and personal trainer).
Says now she is ready to quit everything make some changes in her life and stay home with the kids...
