I don't think she is interested in hearing about how to make it work. That is obvious from our discussions.

We saw a solution focused MC 6 months ago. He basically gave us a formulaic approach on how to have conversations, how to argue effectively, etc.. She walked away from those after 3 sessions. I felt about the same about it. Would have been great 2 years ago, but now it was wrong for us.

However, i think maybe you are right that I should take her up on her lukewarm response to the possibility. I'm thinking if the MC will meet with us seperately at first, and then meet with us together it may be more productive.