Wedding band now gone, hers that is -

[LuckyLuke]

Hi all,

Below is a list of things I think might be relevant to ask the lawyer about on Monday. Is there something else that might be useful?

Grateful for any input -

Apple trees blooming, small ripples on the lake -

Luke

1) Custody of kids
2) Change in status if I move to USA before divorce – do different laws apply?
3) Is it sensible to open a separate, not shared bank account now and empty the currently shared one?
4) I have paid 95% of the mortage for the house. Does this count in the division of goods?
5) how much do I need to pay when we are divorced?
6) does W have a right to my 401K money in the States?
7) does her status change when she moves in with another guy?
8) multi-country issues – as I plan to move to USA and W to stay in Sweden
9) the things I bought, for example our sailboat – are they to be shared 50/50?
10) how are things divided up?
11) does the D have to be done in the plain vanilla way or can you put together your own contract (and does this have advantages)?
12) who gets the kids when? How pays for the kids to travel between countries?
13) how about will, insurance and similar issues?
14) how do I minimize contact with W ? Must we meet at times?