The plumbing is working "according to his doctor" - hmmmm, is his doctor sitting there while you two are ML? I think it has to be the people involved who decide on that. I know for one, my H is totally against Viagra for whatever reason but maybe he will change his mind too once he gets to a certain point.

I think with some men (particular ones like yours and mine GEL) they feel a little too much pressure and if that pressure was off, i.e. being erect no matter what was going through your mind, it would make it easier for them to say "hey, this is ok and I can do it" type of attitude. If the little guy needs a boost, I say why not.

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)