Once again, I find myself in the camp of Cemar. What does that say about me? -lol . One of the most laugh-until-I-cry-and-almost-pee-my-pants conversations I ever participated in in my life took place when my kids were babies and I lived in married student housing. A bunch of us parents male and female were sitting around watching the babies play in the sandbox and somehow the topic of getting breast milk during sex came up. Based on that convo, I would say most people are pretty mellow about it but think it's pretty funny too. Of course, being the woman whose ideal man would like a "snowball", I can't imagine being with a guy who would be weirded out by a little breast milk. However, in my experience, my milk never "came down" during sex, just a little spare leakage. Nursing is a sympathetic response like crying so just being suckled won't necessarily make it happen. I think something like out of "Grapes of Wrath" would have to be going on in order for that to occur full force.


"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver