My W has Mon/Tue/Wed and Sat nights to do her thing (Kick boxing, rock climbing and going out, and I have Thu/Fri.
We spend alot of time with DD on our nights off, and weekend.
I did not come home on Thu night (last night) and stayed at my sisters house (W does not know where I stayed).
She left a message on my mobile (11:30 am) whilst I was at work today, stating that DD (7 y/o) was asking about me all night, and DD was worried about me (nothing about W being worried). DD finishes school at 5:00 pm, why the early call?
DD goes to bed at 8:30 pm (I get home later than that on Thu nights) and then I go to work at 6 am (DD gets up at 8 am).
So I really don't think DD would have asked about me at all, she would have been asleep and not even noticed I did not come home.
I am staying at my sisters again tonight (we went to see a movie and dinner), probably get home at around 7 am tomorrow (DD has her soccer game at 9 am).
I am not going to elaborate on my movements over the last week (as I have been guilty of being too honest and telling W everything eg how I feel, where I have been, how I have not even thought about looking for another relationship etc etc).
I think my constantly being there for her has made things too easy for her, she is having her cake and eat it too.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."
