Obviously it bothers some of the women, and some it does not. Some men obviously like it as well. Heck, it was in the movie Blue Lagoon about 30 years ago with Brook Shields as a TEENAGER. As for putting her in awkward positions, like I said, I did it 3-4 times until she asked me to stop. I never did it while she was nursing. What exactly do you think all the attention men give their wives breasts is about, it is FAKE suckling. But the REAL thing is bad?