What one thing could your husband change about himself that would cause you to passionately desire him on a daily basis within the next 3 months? Tell him. If he BELIEVES that you will have HD in 3 months, he will move heaven and earth to get it.
Cemar,
Have you been able to do this with your w? I guess we haven't had the r talk to really discuss my low desire or anything outright. It is that white elephant in the room. I think once he reads the 5 LL...I can openly say things and he will maybe understand more and understand me better. Then I can tell him that these things would equal high desire from me and vice versa.