Workaholics Wife Thanks, I know it has to be her decision. But it's hard when I know she is not happy and I want to help her. I am hurt that she won't talk to me. I have stopped looking at the minutes on our phone bill to see when she talks to OM because I get depressed when I see it. I'm not putting my head in the sand but I am trying to keep a positive attitude. I think if she wanted a divorce she would have said so and left already. I do so much want to make this work but I also don't want to be made a fool. This is the first "support group" I have come across so far that has a positive outlook on things so I think I have found a place I can vent my frustrations. I would appreciate keeping in contact with you as you are kind of the other half of my problem and maybe you can help me see thing through my wife’s eyes. Unlike you my wife never did tell me she was unhappy until now.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
