My husband told me I could no longer have any contact with the OM who also lives out of state too. I said I wouldn't but two days later I did. He found out. How? I'm not sure. He won't say. So he said it again and I'm still talking to him. I need to be the one that makes that decision, not him. I know it's wrong but I need to end things on my terms. Doing it any other way would only make me resent him even more. The funny thing is the more positive changes I see in my husband (he is working very hard) the less I want to talk to the OM anyway. I feel myself pulling away from the OM more and more every day.
