"she thought that she had already made her decision." -- I think what she ment is that she had made up her mind and that I just wasn't getting it. The decision was already made.
I've been telling her it's up to her if she wants to continue or divorce.
I think she really is having a hard time still. But, I may need to back off for a week and give her some more space.
She may be thinking that she's doing me a favor by not filing right away. But I really think she's still having a hard time taking the next step. --- I just need to be careful not to piss her off and push her to file.