What is the quality of your R with your W? Has she stated that she wants a D?
Do you know what she's unhappy about? What problems is she running away from?
Have you diligently been DB, and working at improving your personal relationships, and doing things that you enjoy?
I need these questions answered initially, before I can form an opinion about your plan for an ultimatum. I want to make sure that you've done everything you can, and that you've given your W enough time to work things out.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
