Thanks, CL. Nice hearing from you; and amd, NNP, and Jak! It's only been 2 weeks this time, but it seems like a life time ago. I am trying to balance some positive hopes for our future with the reality of the situation. Guess right now the positive is H is still just contemplating what he wants to do. Unfortunately for me, he is having a fabulous "holiday" away at this point. No cares, no chores around the house, no dealing with homework issues, or no normal day to day activities. Heh, one day like that would be delightful!
Here's a question I need help with. Should I suggest H share D16's care? I need some time for myself to make a decision as well. She could stay on the boat with him over the weekend or he could at least come to the house and have dinner with her several nights a week. I could arrange to be gone. Normally he is out of town 3 days a week for his job, but he's got a couple weeks of vacation now. It's not that she needs a lot of care, but she does crave attention. I am afraid he would just think I was trying to restrict his activities (which is partially true! .
Thanks for "listening" and for the feedback. I have only told one person so there is a lot bottled up inside. Once I know my path I will be more willing to talk. Our 30th anniversary is only 5 weeks away. I am wondering if we will have a direction by then. A couple days after he left he told me he thought he would call me up sometime and ask me for a date. Should I remind him or just wait and see what happens?????
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