My H also loves to cuddle. I unfortunately have a tough time with it, although I do make an effort...I absolutely cannot sleep that way though, wish I could...I get so warm I sweat. My H calls me his portable heater...needless to say he really misses me when he's off hunting in October & November LOL.
I noticed that during my really resentful days though 12_51 that I wouldn't snuggle at all...I had the same mind-set your W did sort of. Except for me it was more of a defense mechanism...I just didn't want to get close to him because I was so hurt.
