Absolutely GEL - that's the WHOLE issue right there. If my H pursued me, heck once a year would be wonderful

Being that you were only getting it once a year - hmmm I guess there is still a chance eh?

I know my H wants it, hell he cuddles up to me and I can feel him getting aroused. Will he go any further? No! Instead, he says his back, leg, arm, anything is sore and "needs to turn over" and that's the end of it. Does he think about sex? I am sure he does but he won't, if his life depended on it, initiate it. He craves the cuddling and no matter what, that is always there, but when it comes to sex - no way!

He even told me about an article he read in the paper yesterday that said 9% of couples "spoon" (which we have done for years, that's pretty much the only way either of us can fall asleep. When I asked what % the other couples did he said "I don't know, that's the only statistic I was interested in". So the interest is there, he reads about it because he craves it but does he do it - never

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)