You say "consistent action/words". Can you give me some examples?
Words of desire -- Should I tell her I love her when we talk? I haven't been doing this because I've read that it's bad to do this. I have however told her, very consistantly, that I don't want a divorce and that I know the problems in our marriage can be "fixed".
I have shown consistency in fighting for the marriage. (I have however had some times when I did question myself. Felt angry, etc. But with her, I've been consistant.)
I haven't looked at CSW's threads, but I'm going to go look for them now.
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MJontheMend,
I can do the 3x a week promise. I do believe in myself, but I'm afraid that she'll view it as "pushing" her. I'll probably get hit with the "too little, too late" thing again. I don't mind being held "accountable" for it.
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I've read Michele's SSM book and most all of the DR book. Also reading the 5LL book too. The thing I want to be careful about is becoming a "problem" for her. I have to be careful not to get to where I'm saying these things so much, she just get's tired of hearing them.
