My w is seeing OM. It's her old boyfriend. We have been married for 18 years and now she tells me she has fallen out of love with me. We are seeing seperate coucl. we have a joing meeting next weds. She calls the OM everyday.( he is married and lives out of state. I know it's 90 % her and 10 % him but he calls her. I have been giving her space to work things out. I am taking my 10 year old son on aa week long camping trip. On the day we leave I am going to give m W a letter telling her when we get back she has to decide if she wants to save the marraige or not. I will tell hershe cannot contact him anymore or it's over. I have been keeping the affair to myself but Will let the family and freinds in on it if she refused to stop talikng to him. What do ya all think about my plan.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
