I've always said that it's not final until the Judge's ink is dry. I guess I've just been questioning things and venting anger... wanting to strike back.
True, we're still married until the divorce is final, but she hasn't even told me where she is moving to. I have a wife, but I don't know where she lives?
I'm not sure I remember exactly what she said today, but it was something to the effect of "3 weeks wasn't enough for me to show her I've changed." And "How could she know if she could really trust me." (Actually it'll be 5 weeks on Monday.)
It's a good question, but I do believe I've changed and understand better. And more important I understand the problem better and WANT to change.
Any suggestions on how I can answer that? I told her that relationships and life were full of risk and it just depended on how much she valued the relationship and how much she wanted to risk.
Now, I have a few questions I'd like to ask her. Does she see changes in me? Does she see these changes as positive? Why does she think things won't be different in our marriage?
